You are asking very good questions. In my personal experience, I'd say it's preventing. I live in Los Angeles and if I lived somewhere else I would have bought

You are asking very good questions. In my personal experience, I'd say it's preventing. I live in Los Angeles and if I lived somewhere else I would have bought a house and had a child with my partner earlier. We thought about moving, but our networks and support systems are here as is the free baby-sitting provided by two sets of grandparents.