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> The people who feel they need to own cars or houses and have children struggle to meet their personal expectations. Yes, possibly yes, and no. The great thi
by EADGBE 9y ago
> The people who feel they need to own cars or houses and have children struggle to meet their personal expectations.
Yes, possibly yes, and no.
The great thing about personal expectations is that they're personal.
I'd argue the choice to have children guarantees you a future benefactor to your retirement plan (planning a life that guarantees you subsidies).
- verylittlemeat 9y agoYou're absolutely right. People should be free to choose to have kids if they want. On the other hand those same people should not project their expectations on others. We all come to our values through a complex combination of nature and nurture. That is really the spirit of my comment.