>Who you are in one situation is different from who you are in a different situation. This jibes with an Alan Watts quote that helped me - "You are under no ob

>Who you are in one situation is different from who you are in a different situation. This jibes with an Alan Watts quote that helped me - "You are under no obligation to be who you were 15 minutes ago." Like a lot of guru BS this could be taken a thousand ways, including as permission to be untrustworthy, but for me it meant that if you figure out the new, correct path, you don't need to expend energy reconciling your new behavior with your old attitude or behavior to maintain some kind of consistent narrative. Just fix it and move on. You are under no obligation to be who you were 15 minutes ago.