>We have some of the worst waiters; our (Dutch people) views of equality as being one of the most important things in society, render us unable to serve people,

>We have some of the worst waiters; our (Dutch people) views of equality as being one of the most important things in society, render us unable to serve people, or to be served by others in fact. There always is some awkwardness with regards to the position of the server and the person being served. I was once with an Icelandic friend who absentmindedly snapped while attempting to get a Dutch waiter's attention. While my friend meant nothing by it and certainly didn't intend to offend, he got a very direct "don't ever do that, I'm not your servant" rebuke from the waiter. The waiter's rebuke would never have happened in the US for example. If anything they might have apologized for being inattentive.