> My wife is a bit uneasy with it. She fears they will become "losers" and "shut-ins" like we were. By not doing something because of a fear of being labeled a

> My wife is a bit uneasy with it. She fears they will become "losers" and "shut-ins" like we were. By not doing something because of a fear of being labeled as a loser you actually become one. Since certain age, I couldn't care less if other people think I am cool or not and just do what I like. I would hope to foster the same attitude in my kids as soon as possible and hope they do not grow up as slaves of what is currently trendy.