What point are you making? Are you saying it's his own fault for not having shaped his own destiny like an Ayn Rand character? Are you saying it would be nice i

What point are you making? Are you saying it's his own fault for not having shaped his own destiny like an Ayn Rand character? Are you saying it would be nice if he did have more of a sense of ownership? Sure, that would be nice, but lots of things in life would be nice and saying they would be nice makes no difference to anything. What point are you making? Someone who shapes their own destiny such that they wouldn't be in this situation, wouldn't be in this situation. I might as well say it would be nice if someone hit by a car hadn't been in the road.