4) you have the right to exist and my love for you is independent of anything you can say, be or do. This includes your beliefs and mental models and attitude

4) you have the right to exist and my love for you is independent of anything you can say, be or do. This includes your beliefs and mental models and attitude toward my best intentions for your life. I do this with the awareness that in case of contradiction, their personal experience and my modeling beat anything I may say.