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>It is no accident that the young and the old are generally more satisfied with life than those in middle age. I was sitting in my car looking at a stop sign t

>It is no accident that the young and the old are generally more satisfied with life than those in middle age. I was sitting in my car looking at a stop sign the other day, and all of the sudden it started shaking uncontrollably. Immediately I knew it must be a child shaking it, as there was simply no other possibility. No other person would just stand there and shake a street sign for no purpose beyond its' own sake. There is no benefit, no reward, no ultimate reasoning beyond 'I want to shake this street sign". As I looked down, I was right, and the kid was grinning like crazy. We lose the ability to think like that as adults. It's not even that we have the thought and then consciously decide against it; we're incapable of even conceiving it. To just 'play' in life. And I think it's the most important aspect of our humanity. It is the very genesis of all our innovative and creative ideas, yet we treat it as something to be expelled in the process of "growing up".

mlevental 9y ago
>We lose the ability to think like that as adults. It's not even that we have the thought and then consciously decide against it; we're incapable of even conceiving it. i wholeheartedly disagree - you simply fall out of the habit of it. when i was in college i had a lot of sleepless nights and i wandered around campus "pulling on doorknobs". yes sometimes i got into places that i shouldn't have been but that's besides the point: i got back into the habit of touching things and experimenting. this was almost a decade ago now and i still pull on doorknobs, kick sign posts, peak through construction site barriers (nyc is perfect for this because every construction site fence has portholes). really of course the problem is obvious: people that don't think it's cute/funny/interesting are really put off by it (social pressure). young kids have less of that mediating their experience of their world (that's the key)
- tossaway1 9y ago
  I don't avoid those things because of social pressure. I don't try random doorknobs because I wouldn't want people intruding on my space if I happened to leave a door unlocked by accident -- the fact that kids (and some adults apparently) don't think through such things is not some sort of admirable trait. I don't shake sign posts for fun because I've had to fix enough things in my life that I know how actions like that can weaken or destroy an object that most people consider very durable (or indestructible) and therefore would amount to vandalism for the sake of "fun".
  - mlevental 9y ago
    it's funny sometimes i read things or see things online and i can't begin to relate to the subject that wrote/created/said those things. this is going to seem roundabout but bear with me. here is a video of tourists lamenting the drowning of a zebra foal https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAHysptvEfo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAHysptvEfo i can't fathom the subjecthood of the person wishing someone would interfere (this is a savannah in subsaharan africa presumably - there is no such thing as fair - it's a completely unintelligible notion). now it sounds like a young girl doing the lamenting so it makes sense that i can't relate. now you internet person >the fact that kids (and some adults apparently) don't think through such things is not some sort of admirable trait. i can't fathom your subject that you so miss the point that it is exactly this childhood naivete that the op is commenting on. of course children don't think through such things - they're children! they have no sense of property or privacy (nor should they!). this is exactly what op is saying he misses. besides that the sentence as written is essentially the negation of op's and so adds nothing. it doesn't suggest why it's important that no one intrude on your space, it doesn't explain why it's important for people to have private spaces, it doesn't explore anything. it's literally a no to a yes. >I don't shake sign posts for fun because I've had to fix enough things in my life that I know how actions like that can weaken or destroy an object that most people consider very durable (or indestructible) and therefore would amount to vandalism for the sake of "fun". you can choose to ascribe malice or mischief to everything that's the slightest destructive, you are free to do so, but you should at least for a moment consider whether conservation isn't the ultimate goal of life.
    - tossaway1 9y ago
      I didn't criticize kids for their naivete. I was pointing out that I don't think that sort of naivete is something to aspire to. If a kid breaks something because they didn't think through the foreseeable consequences, I don't necessarily attribute that to malice. But I hold adults to a different standard and I don't consider avoiding destruction of public or private property to be an issue of "conservation" but one of respect for my neighbors. I'm all for people trying to recapture the wonder and excitement of their youth. Maybe it was just two unfortunate examples that struck me as things that adults should not be aspiring to do...
meri_dian 9y ago
Agreed. Playing is at the heart of creativity. Only by playfully rearranging ideas can we construct new ideas.
gowld 9y ago
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoteny_in_humans#Brain https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoteny_in_humans#Brain
graeme 9y ago
I would love to do more stuff like that, but frequently refrain, as I know that as a grown man much of it would alarm people. It’s my least favourite part of being an adult. I likewise can no longer wander through people’s property. (I still do things like that when they aren’t potentially alarming)
- rublev 9y ago
  So start being an asshole, it's a lot of fun I promise you. Just fuck with people in a good way.
  - dang 9y ago
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wizardforhire 9y ago
I brought a similar situation up to a friend of mine a couple weeks ago from a different perspective. The condensed exchange goes like this: when you were a kid did you ever go knock on a kids door that you didn't know, nervously wait for them to answer and then when they finally arrived ask them if they want to play? I have yet to meet an adult who didn't do this as a kid and my friend dutifully replied "hell yeah!" The conclusion of the conversation was that that attitude was rad and that we should put ourselves in that situation or at least aware of the option as much as possible. With obvious caveats because we're both in our thirties, however taking that attitude as much as possible has both enriched our lives for the better in the ensuing weeks. The topic came up because I was reminiscing about my transition to adulthood and wondering what's changed in the two decades since and remembered that I had based my entire career on that attitude. I was a little disappointed in myself for having lost my way. I'm very greatful for the recollection because playing is really fun!
- bizdiz 9y ago
  If i become child like i am sure i will be speaking to more people per day and engage in more conversations per person than being adult like, because i would't be thinking of the consequences and in case the person ends up trying to harm me i may just scream mommy and start running. But being adult like we got lot more interests to engage in and also we know not everyone is friendly and approachable and hence we upfront reject connecting with some people. If i simply go and say hi to the 50 year old person sitting next to me and ask him wat r u doing and wat games do u play he is going to be more alarmed and ask me what do u want and ll try to say he is busy and we can catch up other time unless we have some great frequency sync and on other other hand if a kid shows up he ll try to start playing with him.
westoncb 9y ago
I've spent a good amount of time thinking about why this change would occur. My current favorite hypothesis is that a playful mode/attitude emerges naturally when you find your circumstances to be 'okay'. The playful mode seems to be characterized partly by open-ended exploration, and partly by lack of any definition of a 'correct result'. When we lose the habit of entering the playful mode, it's in favor of another mode which carries out optimization processes on some desired goal state; you lose the 'absence of correct result definition' because there is a definitely some particular result you're looking for; likewise your exploration tends to be highly constrained and goal-directed. A lot of distillation of Eastern ideas (primarily Buddhist and Taoist ideas) surrounding meditation focus on this distinction between 'modes'. The practice of meditation itself can help to let go of the driven/goal-oriented mind state, but a perhaps bigger part is taking earnest personal account of which things you really need in order to be content. The more things you're able to say you can do without, the fewer reasons you have to stay in the driven, non-playful mind state. (This is not to say you can't have goals: it's just a different way of dealing with them. The recommendation is to not set them up in such a way that things are not 'okay' until they are met.)
- slantaclaus 9y ago
  The sound of one hand clapping is that of an argument which none of us can disagree with
- dwaltrip 9y ago
  Isn't it simply that children have far less preconceptions of the world, as they haven't had time to form them, and that unstructured play is part of how children satisfy the in-built drive for novelty and understanding? They need to play to make sense of the world. To a child, the most mundane things are genuinely fascinating and novel, as they haven't experienced them much yet. Psychedelics are one way to reach this state of mind as an adult. They unravel our preconceptions a noticeable amount, transforming the mundane into something novel and fascinating yet again. I think this perspective, with some effort, can be fostered as an adult as well. Of course, it's a balancing act.
noobhacker 9y ago
I would say that we "lose" that playful ability for reason. As we age and have more responsibilities, time spent doing things that have "no benefit, no reward, no ultimate reasoning" means time not spent fulfilling other responsibilities. One may argue that playfulness fosters creativity that eventually helps us fulfill other responsibilities better (e.g. create a more innovative startup, be a more playful parent). This is the classic trade off between exploration and exploitation. We tend to explore early on, then exploit the gained knowledge later.
ansible 9y ago
There is no benefit, no reward, no ultimate reasoning beyond 'I want to shake this street sign". As I looked down, I was right, and the kid was grinning like crazy. Actually, there was benefit and reward for the kid shaking the sign. The kid is trying out some things, learning about the world. Answering questions about the world such as: How strong and stable is this sign? Can I shake it like a tree branch? What sound will the shaking make? How strong am I? Am I strong enough to move this sign, even a little? You likely have a good estimate of your own strength, and the how well the sign is installed, so you don't feel much need to shake it and learn its and your own limits. I still do similar things. I tend to tap / rap with my knuckles things like steel stair railings. Some of them can make interesting and long-lasting notes, while with others the best you can get is a dull "thud".
- digi_owl 9y ago
  Or simply that the kid found the sound it made when shaken amusing for some reason.
- PoachedSausage 9y ago
  What better introduction can there be to the physics of simple harmonic motion and resonance than shaking signs and lamp poles?
  - rimliu 9y ago
    Swings?
strictnein 9y ago
> We lose the ability to think like that as adults. ... To just 'play' in life I still think that way, sometimes, it's just I don't like drawing attention to myself. But other times, I just say "screw it". On Saturday I was the only adult joining their kids on the indoor waterslide. And it was a great slide and I loved it.
cryptoz 9y ago
> We lose the ability to think like that It's worth noting with near 100% certainty that aggressively shaking a stop sign is illegal in probably all jurisdictions. Especially if it looks like it is shaking uncontrollably. Now I'm not getting mad at the kid, but there is a very good reason your adult brain doesn't automatically think about shaking that sign (and then commanding your body to go do it). The kid, if faced with a police officer after the event, will of course get off free. They didn't really do any damage. But adults know that shaking that sign so hard could cause real, expensive damage, and that aggressively attacking public safety infrastructure is a bad idea. It's a good thing that your brain knows about the sign. The kid is learning about the sign for the first time maybe, but you know about it. You know what it is and the value of a human life that it might save if it is not ripped down and requiring repairs.
- Clubber 9y ago
  It's almost as if fun, spontaneous things are illegal. You would have to shake that sign pretty damn hard to do damage.
  - cryptoz 9y ago
    > You would have to shake that sign pretty damn hard to do damage. You don't know that. There are at least thousands, perhaps millions, of stop signs across America that are not securely placed into the ground. Sidewalks are cracking, some stop signs are old and getting older in the elements, etc. If everyone in the US went out and shook a stop sign hard, we've be faced with millions of dollars in repairs and a very dangerous interim period without full stop sign coverage. I'm obviously taking the extreme angle here. But America is laced with heavy regulation in the safety of its infrastructure to avoid simple failures like falling stop signs. Obviously there's no great effort to tear down all the top signs that would require a law against it - but I guarantee you that these signs are protected against vandalism and for good reason.
    - Clubber 9y ago
      Shaking a stop sign isn't vandalism.
ironic_ali 9y ago
Funny, my first thought was earthquake. Past experience obviously clouds initial judgements...
tvanantwerp 9y ago
I think I still play, but it's a different kind of play. I don't think to shake a sign because it's not fun. I know exactly what happens if I do that--there's nothing novel. My play now involves deeper experiences, such as picking up new hobbies or trying to learn new subjects. This might be boring to a child, but only because they haven't built up the experience to appreciate it yet.
Waterluvian 9y ago
My preservation of that childlike joy is why I have $500 of ball pit balls and why I often make a one liner to an empty room in response to an unfortunate event, then look at a non existent camera in order to break the fourth wall. It's pointless fun, but myself and the cosmos appreciate it.
matte_black 9y ago
I think this is caused more by being aware of consequences. In VR games, I have found that childlike feeling again. I wander around trying to touch everything, if there is anything I can pick up, I will likely do childish things with, including seeing how far I can throw it or what I can hit with it. I often do some mini-roleplays by performing actions that aren’t strictly required by the game and serve no real purpose. And sometimes I just try to break shit sticking my head and body into places it didn’t belong. And then you have social games like VRChat that feels like you’re playing amongst a bunch of rowdy immature children, sometimes because the people actually are a bunch of children!
kingkawn 9y ago
Na just try doing it again. Your system of reasoning will object and huff and puff, but the child in you will send a smile to your face immediately
bitL 9y ago
> We lose the ability to think like that as adults Exploration vs exploitation
DonHopkins 9y ago
Shaking a red sign that says "STOP" seems infinitely more satisfying than shaking any other kind of sign. I get a perverse pleasure out of setting my GPS destination far in the opposite direction of where I'm actually driving, so it constantly tries to talk me into turning around every exit, just so I can enjoy the simple pleasure of not doing what it tells me to do.
- dr_hooo 9y ago
  Ha, literal rage against a machine! I find it interesting that you enjoy injecting artificial anxiety into your life. In contrast, I try to continuously minimize minor daily annoyances.
  - JoeAltmaier 9y ago
    Just the opposite if we read the comment again. Its enjoyable, not anxiety-inducing.
    - dr_hooo 9y ago
      I got that it's enjoyable for OP - but it would bug the hell out of me. I found this difference surprising.
      - DonHopkins 9y ago
        Try working for TomTom for a few years. Then you'll have a different perspective about those accursed "personal navigation devices". They didn't appreciate my proposal to develop the TomTomagotchi: a PND with a simulated personality that begs you to drive it all around town to various points of interest it desires to visit in order to satisfy its cravings and improve its mood. I'm sure there's a revenue model getting drive through Burger Kings and car washes to pay for product placements. Here are a couple of short hidden camera one minute movies about frustrated robots we made at the Stupid Fun Club. Stupid Fun Club's "Servitude" One Minute Movie about Robot Servitude, written by Will Wright. Robot brain and personality simulation programmed by Don Hopkins. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXsUetUzXlg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXsUetUzXlg Stupid Fun Club's "Empathy" One Minute Movie about Robot Empathy, written by Will Wright. Robot brain and personality simulation programmed by Don Hopkins. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KXrbqXPnHvE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KXrbqXPnHvE And if you thought recalcitrant robots were hard to control: Pet Rock Remote Control https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SG0FAKkaisg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SG0FAKkaisg (If you want your pet rock to be obedient, you just have to carefully choose which commands you tell it to do.)
aklemm 9y ago
For me, I just think most play loses it's interest because the novelty is gone. I know or can guess pretty well what will happen, so I'd rather read a novel or article that tells me something new. Or make something. Or bring something back to order. It's not all bad. And when I want to play, I do. Why else would I chase my chickens around the yard with a remote control buggy?
sifar 9y ago
"All grown ups were children once, though few of them remember it!" --- The Little Prince Something I want my kids to never forget as they grow up - don't stop being a kid.
edem 9y ago
Interesting thought. I'm 32 and I still have these playful thoughts. What's more interesting is that when I act some people look at me in a weird way since it is not expected of me. Not like I give a damn though. I know better.
didibus 9y ago
"To just 'play' in life." I don't think we're incapable of conceiving it, I think this is very much cultural. While we should avoid "playfulness" that comes at the expense of the greater good, like kicking a garbage over, or other kind of destructive play. I think its possible for adults to "play", but we'd need to change our culture to allow it. I'd say a big part of playfulness is about engaging with others in a trustful and open manner. Something I feel our culture makes quite difficult. Going dancing for example is a good form of playfulness, yet is culturally a source of anxiety for most of the western world. To play with other adults makes most of us anxious, how messed up is that!?! Similarly, to learn and explore as an adult is a source of anxiety, because our culture does not allow adults to be novice at something without judging or ridiculing. As an adult, you feel ashamed to start learning something new from scratch, that's why most people who learn things from scratch as adults do it with activities where they can learn it in secret, by themselves. Lastly, time is a problem. We've given up our play time as adults, our culture is designed this way. We don't value time to play, we value making more money. People want to be rich, not play more. I think this is all just cultural, as from where I'm from, these norms are not as strong as where I live now. Where I'm from I know of many more adults who's idea of a perfect life is to just live in a modest house, singing, dancing, playing music, chatting over dinner with good friends and family. To have time for your hobbies, and to just be able to relax and appreciate the passing of time.

mlevental 9y ago

>We lose the ability to think like that as adults. It's not even that we have the thought and then consciously decide against it; we're incapable of even conceiving it. i wholeheartedly disagree - you simply fall out of the habit of it. when i was in college i had a lot of sleepless nights and i wandered around campus "pulling on doorknobs". yes sometimes i got into places that i shouldn't have been but that's besides the point: i got back into the habit of touching things and experimenting. this was almost a decade ago now and i still pull on doorknobs, kick sign posts, peak through construction site barriers (nyc is perfect for this because every construction site fence has portholes). really of course the problem is obvious: people that don't think it's cute/funny/interesting are really put off by it (social pressure). young kids have less of that mediating their experience of their world (that's the key)

tossaway1 9y ago
I don't avoid those things because of social pressure. I don't try random doorknobs because I wouldn't want people intruding on my space if I happened to leave a door unlocked by accident -- the fact that kids (and some adults apparently) don't think through such things is not some sort of admirable trait. I don't shake sign posts for fun because I've had to fix enough things in my life that I know how actions like that can weaken or destroy an object that most people consider very durable (or indestructible) and therefore would amount to vandalism for the sake of "fun".
- mlevental 9y ago
  it's funny sometimes i read things or see things online and i can't begin to relate to the subject that wrote/created/said those things. this is going to seem roundabout but bear with me. here is a video of tourists lamenting the drowning of a zebra foal https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAHysptvEfo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAHysptvEfo i can't fathom the subjecthood of the person wishing someone would interfere (this is a savannah in subsaharan africa presumably - there is no such thing as fair - it's a completely unintelligible notion). now it sounds like a young girl doing the lamenting so it makes sense that i can't relate. now you internet person >the fact that kids (and some adults apparently) don't think through such things is not some sort of admirable trait. i can't fathom your subject that you so miss the point that it is exactly this childhood naivete that the op is commenting on. of course children don't think through such things - they're children! they have no sense of property or privacy (nor should they!). this is exactly what op is saying he misses. besides that the sentence as written is essentially the negation of op's and so adds nothing. it doesn't suggest why it's important that no one intrude on your space, it doesn't explain why it's important for people to have private spaces, it doesn't explore anything. it's literally a no to a yes. >I don't shake sign posts for fun because I've had to fix enough things in my life that I know how actions like that can weaken or destroy an object that most people consider very durable (or indestructible) and therefore would amount to vandalism for the sake of "fun". you can choose to ascribe malice or mischief to everything that's the slightest destructive, you are free to do so, but you should at least for a moment consider whether conservation isn't the ultimate goal of life.
  - tossaway1 9y ago
    I didn't criticize kids for their naivete. I was pointing out that I don't think that sort of naivete is something to aspire to. If a kid breaks something because they didn't think through the foreseeable consequences, I don't necessarily attribute that to malice. But I hold adults to a different standard and I don't consider avoiding destruction of public or private property to be an issue of "conservation" but one of respect for my neighbors. I'm all for people trying to recapture the wonder and excitement of their youth. Maybe it was just two unfortunate examples that struck me as things that adults should not be aspiring to do...

meri_dian 9y ago

Agreed. Playing is at the heart of creativity. Only by playfully rearranging ideas can we construct new ideas.

gowld 9y ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoteny_in_humans#Brain https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoteny_in_humans#Brain

graeme 9y ago

I would love to do more stuff like that, but frequently refrain, as I know that as a grown man much of it would alarm people. It’s my least favourite part of being an adult. I likewise can no longer wander through people’s property. (I still do things like that when they aren’t potentially alarming)

rublev 9y ago
So start being an asshole, it's a lot of fun I promise you. Just fuck with people in a good way.
- dang 9y ago
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wizardforhire 9y ago

I brought a similar situation up to a friend of mine a couple weeks ago from a different perspective. The condensed exchange goes like this: when you were a kid did you ever go knock on a kids door that you didn't know, nervously wait for them to answer and then when they finally arrived ask them if they want to play? I have yet to meet an adult who didn't do this as a kid and my friend dutifully replied "hell yeah!" The conclusion of the conversation was that that attitude was rad and that we should put ourselves in that situation or at least aware of the option as much as possible. With obvious caveats because we're both in our thirties, however taking that attitude as much as possible has both enriched our lives for the better in the ensuing weeks. The topic came up because I was reminiscing about my transition to adulthood and wondering what's changed in the two decades since and remembered that I had based my entire career on that attitude. I was a little disappointed in myself for having lost my way. I'm very greatful for the recollection because playing is really fun!

bizdiz 9y ago
If i become child like i am sure i will be speaking to more people per day and engage in more conversations per person than being adult like, because i would't be thinking of the consequences and in case the person ends up trying to harm me i may just scream mommy and start running. But being adult like we got lot more interests to engage in and also we know not everyone is friendly and approachable and hence we upfront reject connecting with some people. If i simply go and say hi to the 50 year old person sitting next to me and ask him wat r u doing and wat games do u play he is going to be more alarmed and ask me what do u want and ll try to say he is busy and we can catch up other time unless we have some great frequency sync and on other other hand if a kid shows up he ll try to start playing with him.

westoncb 9y ago

I've spent a good amount of time thinking about why this change would occur. My current favorite hypothesis is that a playful mode/attitude emerges naturally when you find your circumstances to be 'okay'. The playful mode seems to be characterized partly by open-ended exploration, and partly by lack of any definition of a 'correct result'. When we lose the habit of entering the playful mode, it's in favor of another mode which carries out optimization processes on some desired goal state; you lose the 'absence of correct result definition' because there is a definitely some particular result you're looking for; likewise your exploration tends to be highly constrained and goal-directed. A lot of distillation of Eastern ideas (primarily Buddhist and Taoist ideas) surrounding meditation focus on this distinction between 'modes'. The practice of meditation itself can help to let go of the driven/goal-oriented mind state, but a perhaps bigger part is taking earnest personal account of which things you really need in order to be content. The more things you're able to say you can do without, the fewer reasons you have to stay in the driven, non-playful mind state. (This is not to say you can't have goals: it's just a different way of dealing with them. The recommendation is to not set them up in such a way that things are not 'okay' until they are met.)

slantaclaus 9y ago
The sound of one hand clapping is that of an argument which none of us can disagree with
dwaltrip 9y ago
Isn't it simply that children have far less preconceptions of the world, as they haven't had time to form them, and that unstructured play is part of how children satisfy the in-built drive for novelty and understanding? They need to play to make sense of the world. To a child, the most mundane things are genuinely fascinating and novel, as they haven't experienced them much yet. Psychedelics are one way to reach this state of mind as an adult. They unravel our preconceptions a noticeable amount, transforming the mundane into something novel and fascinating yet again. I think this perspective, with some effort, can be fostered as an adult as well. Of course, it's a balancing act.

noobhacker 9y ago

I would say that we "lose" that playful ability for reason. As we age and have more responsibilities, time spent doing things that have "no benefit, no reward, no ultimate reasoning" means time not spent fulfilling other responsibilities. One may argue that playfulness fosters creativity that eventually helps us fulfill other responsibilities better (e.g. create a more innovative startup, be a more playful parent). This is the classic trade off between exploration and exploitation. We tend to explore early on, then exploit the gained knowledge later.

ansible 9y ago

There is no benefit, no reward, no ultimate reasoning beyond 'I want to shake this street sign". As I looked down, I was right, and the kid was grinning like crazy. Actually, there was benefit and reward for the kid shaking the sign. The kid is trying out some things, learning about the world. Answering questions about the world such as: How strong and stable is this sign? Can I shake it like a tree branch? What sound will the shaking make? How strong am I? Am I strong enough to move this sign, even a little? You likely have a good estimate of your own strength, and the how well the sign is installed, so you don't feel much need to shake it and learn its and your own limits. I still do similar things. I tend to tap / rap with my knuckles things like steel stair railings. Some of them can make interesting and long-lasting notes, while with others the best you can get is a dull "thud".

digi_owl 9y ago
Or simply that the kid found the sound it made when shaken amusing for some reason.
PoachedSausage 9y ago
What better introduction can there be to the physics of simple harmonic motion and resonance than shaking signs and lamp poles?
- rimliu 9y ago
  Swings?

strictnein 9y ago

> We lose the ability to think like that as adults. ... To just 'play' in life I still think that way, sometimes, it's just I don't like drawing attention to myself. But other times, I just say "screw it". On Saturday I was the only adult joining their kids on the indoor waterslide. And it was a great slide and I loved it.

cryptoz 9y ago

> We lose the ability to think like that It's worth noting with near 100% certainty that aggressively shaking a stop sign is illegal in probably all jurisdictions. Especially if it looks like it is shaking uncontrollably. Now I'm not getting mad at the kid, but there is a very good reason your adult brain doesn't automatically think about shaking that sign (and then commanding your body to go do it). The kid, if faced with a police officer after the event, will of course get off free. They didn't really do any damage. But adults know that shaking that sign so hard could cause real, expensive damage, and that aggressively attacking public safety infrastructure is a bad idea. It's a good thing that your brain knows about the sign. The kid is learning about the sign for the first time maybe, but you know about it. You know what it is and the value of a human life that it might save if it is not ripped down and requiring repairs.

Clubber 9y ago
It's almost as if fun, spontaneous things are illegal. You would have to shake that sign pretty damn hard to do damage.
- cryptoz 9y ago
  > You would have to shake that sign pretty damn hard to do damage. You don't know that. There are at least thousands, perhaps millions, of stop signs across America that are not securely placed into the ground. Sidewalks are cracking, some stop signs are old and getting older in the elements, etc. If everyone in the US went out and shook a stop sign hard, we've be faced with millions of dollars in repairs and a very dangerous interim period without full stop sign coverage. I'm obviously taking the extreme angle here. But America is laced with heavy regulation in the safety of its infrastructure to avoid simple failures like falling stop signs. Obviously there's no great effort to tear down all the top signs that would require a law against it - but I guarantee you that these signs are protected against vandalism and for good reason.
  - Clubber 9y ago
    Shaking a stop sign isn't vandalism.

ironic_ali 9y ago

Funny, my first thought was earthquake. Past experience obviously clouds initial judgements...

tvanantwerp 9y ago

I think I still play, but it's a different kind of play. I don't think to shake a sign because it's not fun. I know exactly what happens if I do that--there's nothing novel. My play now involves deeper experiences, such as picking up new hobbies or trying to learn new subjects. This might be boring to a child, but only because they haven't built up the experience to appreciate it yet.

Waterluvian 9y ago

My preservation of that childlike joy is why I have $500 of ball pit balls and why I often make a one liner to an empty room in response to an unfortunate event, then look at a non existent camera in order to break the fourth wall. It's pointless fun, but myself and the cosmos appreciate it.

matte_black 9y ago

I think this is caused more by being aware of consequences. In VR games, I have found that childlike feeling again. I wander around trying to touch everything, if there is anything I can pick up, I will likely do childish things with, including seeing how far I can throw it or what I can hit with it. I often do some mini-roleplays by performing actions that aren’t strictly required by the game and serve no real purpose. And sometimes I just try to break shit sticking my head and body into places it didn’t belong. And then you have social games like VRChat that feels like you’re playing amongst a bunch of rowdy immature children, sometimes because the people actually are a bunch of children!

kingkawn 9y ago

Na just try doing it again. Your system of reasoning will object and huff and puff, but the child in you will send a smile to your face immediately

bitL 9y ago

> We lose the ability to think like that as adults Exploration vs exploitation

DonHopkins 9y ago

Shaking a red sign that says "STOP" seems infinitely more satisfying than shaking any other kind of sign. I get a perverse pleasure out of setting my GPS destination far in the opposite direction of where I'm actually driving, so it constantly tries to talk me into turning around every exit, just so I can enjoy the simple pleasure of not doing what it tells me to do.

dr_hooo 9y ago
Ha, literal rage against a machine! I find it interesting that you enjoy injecting artificial anxiety into your life. In contrast, I try to continuously minimize minor daily annoyances.
- JoeAltmaier 9y ago
  Just the opposite if we read the comment again. Its enjoyable, not anxiety-inducing.
  - dr_hooo 9y ago
    I got that it's enjoyable for OP - but it would bug the hell out of me. I found this difference surprising.
    - DonHopkins 9y ago
      Try working for TomTom for a few years. Then you'll have a different perspective about those accursed "personal navigation devices". They didn't appreciate my proposal to develop the TomTomagotchi: a PND with a simulated personality that begs you to drive it all around town to various points of interest it desires to visit in order to satisfy its cravings and improve its mood. I'm sure there's a revenue model getting drive through Burger Kings and car washes to pay for product placements. Here are a couple of short hidden camera one minute movies about frustrated robots we made at the Stupid Fun Club. Stupid Fun Club's "Servitude" One Minute Movie about Robot Servitude, written by Will Wright. Robot brain and personality simulation programmed by Don Hopkins. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXsUetUzXlg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXsUetUzXlg Stupid Fun Club's "Empathy" One Minute Movie about Robot Empathy, written by Will Wright. Robot brain and personality simulation programmed by Don Hopkins. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KXrbqXPnHvE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KXrbqXPnHvE And if you thought recalcitrant robots were hard to control: Pet Rock Remote Control https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SG0FAKkaisg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SG0FAKkaisg (If you want your pet rock to be obedient, you just have to carefully choose which commands you tell it to do.)

aklemm 9y ago

For me, I just think most play loses it's interest because the novelty is gone. I know or can guess pretty well what will happen, so I'd rather read a novel or article that tells me something new. Or make something. Or bring something back to order. It's not all bad. And when I want to play, I do. Why else would I chase my chickens around the yard with a remote control buggy?

sifar 9y ago

"All grown ups were children once, though few of them remember it!" --- The Little Prince Something I want my kids to never forget as they grow up - don't stop being a kid.

edem 9y ago

Interesting thought. I'm 32 and I still have these playful thoughts. What's more interesting is that when I act some people look at me in a weird way since it is not expected of me. Not like I give a damn though. I know better.

didibus 9y ago

"To just 'play' in life." I don't think we're incapable of conceiving it, I think this is very much cultural. While we should avoid "playfulness" that comes at the expense of the greater good, like kicking a garbage over, or other kind of destructive play. I think its possible for adults to "play", but we'd need to change our culture to allow it. I'd say a big part of playfulness is about engaging with others in a trustful and open manner. Something I feel our culture makes quite difficult. Going dancing for example is a good form of playfulness, yet is culturally a source of anxiety for most of the western world. To play with other adults makes most of us anxious, how messed up is that!?! Similarly, to learn and explore as an adult is a source of anxiety, because our culture does not allow adults to be novice at something without judging or ridiculing. As an adult, you feel ashamed to start learning something new from scratch, that's why most people who learn things from scratch as adults do it with activities where they can learn it in secret, by themselves. Lastly, time is a problem. We've given up our play time as adults, our culture is designed this way. We don't value time to play, we value making more money. People want to be rich, not play more. I think this is all just cultural, as from where I'm from, these norms are not as strong as where I live now. Where I'm from I know of many more adults who's idea of a perfect life is to just live in a modest house, singing, dancing, playing music, chatting over dinner with good friends and family. To have time for your hobbies, and to just be able to relax and appreciate the passing of time.