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If I saw someone with a laptop or their phone, or whatever, sitting in one my meetings not paying full attention to the issue at hand, we'd be having a talk and

If I saw someone with a laptop or their phone, or whatever, sitting in one my meetings not paying full attention to the issue at hand, we'd be having a talk and there'd be a piece of paper with some bad things written on it and you've got a strike. I asked you to the meeting cause I wanted your full metal capacity on the issue at hand. If you don't want to pay attention you're probably at the wrong job.

piva00 9y ago
Or the meeting is not following the agenda. Or people are overlapping discussions without coming to fruition. Or the current part of the meeting is well known by the person and they are bored. There are a myriad of reasons why someone check their phones and laptops at meetings. I don't like it, I don't bring my laptop if not strictly needed (I'm presenting something or need to support the presenter), I don't pick my phone up at any time because I feel that is disrespectful. With that said, I'm dying of boredom in some meetings where the meeting-holder does not have a clue on how to proceed with one, I constantly have to stop people on the third or fourth level deep of an unrelated discussion. I agree on you having a rule for "no phones, no laptops" but then you have the burden on carrying those meetings optimally, if not you've failed and have no right on asking others to behave if you haven't provided a good environment for that. Also: I don't like these kind of extreme measures on petty issues, meeting distractions is a solvable problem without the need to shame people, I'd definitely be on the wrong job if that is your stance.
- redleggedfrog 9y ago
  Then you should say, "I'm wasting company time in this meeting." And I'd make sure I'd gotten what I want from you and then let you go if I had it. And I'd appreciate it. At programmer rates today, it's more than a $1 a minute. That's not petty.
  - nsxwolf 9y ago
    That's a weird way to measure productivity. You're not really paying for minutes.
dagw 9y ago
I asked you to the meeting cause I wanted your full metal capacity on the issue at hand. If that's actually the case then great. Most of the time I'm asked to a meeting because it's easier for the manager to invite the whole department to one big meeting rather than setting up 6 smaller meetings with only the people needed for each item on the agenda.
nsxwolf 9y ago
Jeez. A "strike"?
valuearb 9y ago
Do you always circulate an agenda to all participants before the meeting explaining exactly what it expects to accomplish? Do you always circulate a followup after the meeting with all decisions made, and the persons responsible for implementing those decisions?

piva00 9y ago

Or the meeting is not following the agenda. Or people are overlapping discussions without coming to fruition. Or the current part of the meeting is well known by the person and they are bored. There are a myriad of reasons why someone check their phones and laptops at meetings. I don't like it, I don't bring my laptop if not strictly needed (I'm presenting something or need to support the presenter), I don't pick my phone up at any time because I feel that is disrespectful. With that said, I'm dying of boredom in some meetings where the meeting-holder does not have a clue on how to proceed with one, I constantly have to stop people on the third or fourth level deep of an unrelated discussion. I agree on you having a rule for "no phones, no laptops" but then you have the burden on carrying those meetings optimally, if not you've failed and have no right on asking others to behave if you haven't provided a good environment for that. Also: I don't like these kind of extreme measures on petty issues, meeting distractions is a solvable problem without the need to shame people, I'd definitely be on the wrong job if that is your stance.

redleggedfrog 9y ago
Then you should say, "I'm wasting company time in this meeting." And I'd make sure I'd gotten what I want from you and then let you go if I had it. And I'd appreciate it. At programmer rates today, it's more than a $1 a minute. That's not petty.
- nsxwolf 9y ago
  That's a weird way to measure productivity. You're not really paying for minutes.

dagw 9y ago

I asked you to the meeting cause I wanted your full metal capacity on the issue at hand. If that's actually the case then great. Most of the time I'm asked to a meeting because it's easier for the manager to invite the whole department to one big meeting rather than setting up 6 smaller meetings with only the people needed for each item on the agenda.

nsxwolf 9y ago

Jeez. A "strike"?

valuearb 9y ago

Do you always circulate an agenda to all participants before the meeting explaining exactly what it expects to accomplish? Do you always circulate a followup after the meeting with all decisions made, and the persons responsible for implementing those decisions?