Everyone is comfortable with different levels of grooming. I've been on multi-week survival trips and backpacking trips where there was no grooming (except the

Everyone is comfortable with different levels of grooming. I've been on multi-week survival trips and backpacking trips where there was no grooming (except the occasional river dunk) to be had. I also presently live in a dense urban city where grooming tends to be a standard, versus when I grew up on my parent's ranch - grooming was more of an "option". Saying that someone's "preference" is disturbing is a strong indicator of your limited world view; there's nothing scary or icky about being well groomed, clean, and sharp. You can also never take it too literally! There are people out there that like to bleach their anus and I don't consider them disturbing even though that's something I don't find necessary for my own bodily care. Either way, do what you do, I don't care :-)