There are many many ways of being "smart" and I've found most people are smart in at least one way or another. Either they are socially smart, or they are very

There are many many ways of being "smart" and I've found most people are smart in at least one way or another. Either they are socially smart, or they are very fast to learn something or they are very good at thinking deeply to work out a complex issue. Maybe they just have a great memory. It sounds like you are admitting to being socially dumb which is a good thing, admitting it is the first step to improvement. Keep your eye out for other people around you who are socially smart and try and learn from them. Imitation is the our most basic learning strategy and can work well as a starting point.