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I rarely use big words when there's a simpler one that has almost the exact same meaning. Sometimes I'm communicating something quite precise and nuanced. In
by borplk 9y ago
I rarely use big words when there's a simpler one that has almost the exact same meaning.
Sometimes I'm communicating something quite precise and nuanced.
In those cases I may use big words because it is the right word to use.
English is my 2nd language as well, so if nothing else I think I would deserve some credit for having developed a good vocabulary.
It annoys me when people dismiss the precision in the language as "big words" or "trying to impress". It shows that they are not listening carefully enough, or that they have such a weak vocabulary that they are just overwhelmed by a few words they are not familiar with.
Context is also important. I rarely do that with basic day to day conversations. But hey if you throw some big complex question at me about a professional topic in a professional environment then don't expect a 1st-grader-friendly response.
- mrkstu 9y agoLots of more precise words are not particularly 'big' words. One shouldn't have to pre-edit one's thoughts to pull out the better word because it doesn't fit into a typical 5th grade education. I love older British children's literature because it doesn't do this at all- it expects the kids to learn new vocabulary along the way. Check out 'Peter Pan'- the verbiage is no different than if it was targeted to an older audience and the better for it.
- HumanDrivenDev 9y agoFWIW I find the way you wrote that very pretentious. I suppose you can accuse me of not being as smart as you (you could be right - I have no idea). But the fact remains I understand everything you say but still come away with thinking - "this guy sounds like a bit of a blow-hard". You might be a nice person, but it's the impression I get.
- borplk 9y agoI agree. But I think people who get angry about someone using big words tend to have quite a low bar for what is considered a big word.
- XorNot 9y agoMore importantly they're worried about status rather then listening or being curious. If someone's verbiage goes over your head you ask them to define it for you.
- BeetleB 9y ago>I rarely use big words when there's a simpler one that has almost the exact same meaning. Yes, but the simpler one isn't necessarily the one that pops up into your head. Always opting for the simpler word means a less natural dialog flow for some.
- rhino369 9y agoPart of good communication is knowing your audience.