It's difficult. It essentially comes down to whether sex should be opt-in or opt-out. I think it should be opt-in, either verbally or non-verbally. This case

It's difficult. It essentially comes down to whether sex should be opt-in or opt-out. I think it should be opt-in, either verbally or non-verbally. This case in particular is difficult because "Grace", according to her account, was sending mixed non-verbal signals.