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You can't just go to a bar or pub or club on your own and talk to a stranger. Well you can, but thats the exception not the norm.
by Ardit20 16y ago
You can't just go to a bar or pub or club on your own and talk to a stranger. Well you can, but thats the exception not the norm.
- btilly 16y agoMost people don't, but try it anyways. You'll probably be pleasantly surprised. Most people don't go to chat rooms online either. You shouldn't judge what is possible by paying attention to what most people do.
- Ardit20 16y agoYeh but you would feel weird. Why not just have a place where it is conventionally acceptable to talk to other strangers. Anyway, what has everyone else always wondered?
- btilly 16y agoWhy not just have a place where it is conventionally acceptable to talk to other strangers. Suppose you created this. A certain core of people would go. Before long they would know each other. After that any newcomer would find that they are in a sea of people who know each other. And given our culture, would feel awkward going up and talking to them. Even though those people are nice and actually would be welcoming. This is a surprisingly good description of many clubs, bars, various kinds of meetups, and so on.