An open mind. I have many personal growth experiences, all of them candidates to be the most influential. Perhaps each was most influential at the time of the

An open mind. I have many personal growth experiences, all of them candidates to be the most influential. Perhaps each was most influential at the time of the experience. But there was one thing common to all of those experiences, having an open mind. With maybe a little discernment. One can say “No” and still maintain an open mind, if the “No” is more of a “not right now”.