That is a lousy spec for real life. Since mindless toils in some form will always be part of our lives, it makes sense to optimize them reasonably, but have a m

That is a lousy spec for real life. Since mindless toils in some form will always be part of our lives, it makes sense to optimize them reasonably, but have a mental setup of being at peace with some of it. Otherwise it's an uphill battle with you on losing side. Laziness is a crappy mental setup for long term relationships, for parenting, heck even for work (I get some brilliant engineering work comes from laziness but it's a bit different type, and applied only sporadically). In fact, some mindless work can be a sort of meditation.