"Argue as if you're right but listen as if you're wrong." How about arguing and listening as if you know exactly as much as you do and nothing more? It's not h

"Argue as if you're right but listen as if you're wrong." How about arguing and listening as if you know exactly as much as you do and nothing more? It's not hard to imagine a case in which both arguing "as if you're right" and listening "as if you're wrong" would be inappropriate or down right foolish.