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This is kind a little off topic but I have a question for you. I am in the middle of being diagnosed with ADHD (I'm 30). It was actually HN that prompted me t

This is kind a little off topic but I have a question for you. I am in the middle of being diagnosed with ADHD (I'm 30). It was actually HN that prompted me to take action, but that's another story which I can expand on if anyone is interested. I haven't read much about ADHD being linked to shyness and introversion, although I certainly haven't done enough research. But it describes me very well, could you possibly say a little more or point me to some resources? Everything I've read talks about impulsiveness and extroversion. I would guess that shyness and introversion are learned reactions to the impulsiveness.

c00p3r 16y ago
I'm not a guru, but I have my own experience, which matches resent publicly accepted studies. http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Than/dp/0553375067 http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Tha... is a good starting point. I think everyone involved (I'm with Asperger's) should study the topic, to be able to understand (and then make a corrections to) one's own behavior, instead of believing what other people (including doctors) are saying.
- DerKommissar 16y ago
  I've heard good things about that book, I probably should get a copy. I didn't word my question very well. I was wondering where you got your examples. None of the ADHD info I've read says anything about shyness or eye contact. A child playing by themselves would seem to be the exact opposite of the popular notion of what a kid with ADHD is like (assuming that they weren't totally spaced out to the world around them, which you didn't mention). I'm just interested because that's me. I'm shy, I have minor problems with eye contact (more like I just have problems relating to new people) and I spent a large chunk of my childhood playing by myself with Legos and Transformers. That last bit was one of the reasons my parents said they didn't think I could have ADHD. "But you used to amuse yourself for hours by yourself. You certainly were paying attention to THAT."
brodie 16y ago
There's an inattentive type[1] of ADHD that doesn't connote hyperactivity or impulsivity. Mood, anxiety, and personality disorders also frequently occur along with ADHD[2]. [1]: http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/guide/types-of-adhd http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/guide/types-of-adhd [2]: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/adult-adhd/DS01161/DSECTION=complications http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/adult-adhd/DS01161/DSECTION...

c00p3r 16y ago

I'm not a guru, but I have my own experience, which matches resent publicly accepted studies. http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Than/dp/0553375067 http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Intelligence-Matter-More-Tha... is a good starting point. I think everyone involved (I'm with Asperger's) should study the topic, to be able to understand (and then make a corrections to) one's own behavior, instead of believing what other people (including doctors) are saying.

DerKommissar 16y ago
I've heard good things about that book, I probably should get a copy. I didn't word my question very well. I was wondering where you got your examples. None of the ADHD info I've read says anything about shyness or eye contact. A child playing by themselves would seem to be the exact opposite of the popular notion of what a kid with ADHD is like (assuming that they weren't totally spaced out to the world around them, which you didn't mention). I'm just interested because that's me. I'm shy, I have minor problems with eye contact (more like I just have problems relating to new people) and I spent a large chunk of my childhood playing by myself with Legos and Transformers. That last bit was one of the reasons my parents said they didn't think I could have ADHD. "But you used to amuse yourself for hours by yourself. You certainly were paying attention to THAT."

brodie 16y ago

There's an inattentive type[1] of ADHD that doesn't connote hyperactivity or impulsivity. Mood, anxiety, and personality disorders also frequently occur along with ADHD[2]. [1]: http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/guide/types-of-adhd http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/guide/types-of-adhd [2]: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/adult-adhd/DS01161/DSECTION=complications http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/adult-adhd/DS01161/DSECTION...