I am late for the discussion, but maybe I could shine something on this whole discussion. Having a kid is the most hard/stressing/demanding thing if you are do

I am late for the discussion, but maybe I could shine something on this whole discussion. Having a kid is the most hard/stressing/demanding thing if you are doing the best and the right thing. Kids don't choose when or what disease they get. Have you a meeting in the morning? That's sucks you are on ER at 5:00 am since 2:00 full of vomit. Want to move to Nepal and be a monk for one year? Your kid will not wait. A lot of people outsource or do different decisions, but EACH decision has a price. You pay now or in the future with interest. Yesterday was my kid first day after vacations. He was throwing a fit. But yesterday was different was not a common fit. So I asked what the problem was? Are the schools? Teachers? Friends? No. he said: I want to be with you daddy. That got me, real hard. I started to cry, and he hugged me. I want to be with him all the time. But that is not life about. He is growing. Soon will be a teen and later married and have kids. And I will be left missing him. But still, this is marvelous. Having kids hurts and it is not for everyone. But I will do everything again 1000x times.