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I don't want my friends texting me everything. That's far more disruptive than a passive feed I can glance at. And I don't want to text my friends everything ei
by freehunter 9y ago
I don't want my friends texting me everything. That's far more disruptive than a passive feed I can glance at. And I don't want to text my friends everything either.
One of the great things about Facebook is the unexpected social interactions. I post a picture and someone I haven't talked to in a while comments something really great on it and sparks a conversation and rekindles the friendship. That's not going to happen over text.
People in my life on a daily basis are in my life on a daily basis. People in my life occasionally are on Facebook.
- DashRattlesnake 9y ago> I don't want my friends texting me everything. That's far more disruptive than a passive feed I can glance at. And I don't want to text my friends everything either. Real friendships aren't passive.
- freehunter 9y agoYou have a very restrictive view of what a real friendship is. I'm sorry, but you don't get to define my relationships, that is not your right.
- eckza 9y agoThat’s fair. I am personally going through a period where I need to tighten my circle and cut down on the number of people that I communicate with on a given day, so that’s what’s driving my approach. Thank you for sharing your perspective.
- Double_a_92 9y agoWe have a Telegram group with all the important people. Just mute it so you can passively read it. And if it's something specifically for you they can @handle you. Also we have more specific groups for gaming, memes, serious, homework,... Oh and a "huge" group were we can add new people at first, that somebody randomly met somewhere. So they can maybe get friends with some of the others too.