I don't follow this at all, what are you saying? First off, there are two pictures in the article, so the idea that "looks matter" as pertains to selfishness,

I don't follow this at all, what are you saying? First off, there are two pictures in the article, so the idea that "looks matter" as pertains to selfishness, whatever that means, is in question. Secondly, the idea that "looks matter" doesn't make sense. She seems rather regular looking, not picked out specifically because of her looks. Lastly, spending money on your children to me is far less selfish than paying off your personal debt, which did not get a photo.