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> We need to feel we belong. We need to feel valued. We need to feel we’re good at something. We need to feel we have a secure future. And there is growing evid
by thaw9876 9y ago
> We need to feel we belong. We need to feel valued. We need to feel we’re good at something. We need to feel we have a secure future. And there is growing evidence that our culture isn’t meeting those psychological needs for many – perhaps most...
This (emphasized) is what I think is causing my increasing anxiety and depression. I look around at people, talking loudly, showing off, taking selfies, buying expensive crap they don't need from expensive shops, etc. I try to puzzle out why they're so happy, they all seem so superficial, and I can't understand why they don't feel miserable about the people less fortunate than them who live right next door, the people serving them, who are all struggling to just get by and by all measures increasingly failing. I really want to live in a more equal society that takes care of all citizens.
- flowless 9y agoSame here. One of the most disturbing scenes I'm witnessing like every night is couple of homeless people sleeping in front of the church while each morning there are these noble ignorants walking around them who even call them selves Christians.. Anxiety is just another term for caring too much in some cases (This was mentioned here on HN last time I was reading similar discussion).
- nasredin 9y agoDisagree. I think you are descibing empathy and selfishness, not anxiety. Anxiety and empathy are probably somehow connected, but they are different things.