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Has this technique been proven to be successful? Otherwise I don't think it's right to call it "the thing to do".
by shawnz 9y ago
Has this technique been proven to be successful? Otherwise I don't think it's right to call it "the thing to do".
- ianai 9y agoPeople indicate the methods from that book saved their marriages. I’m not aware of any studies because I don’t have time to become an expert on this. Violence comes in many forms and diminishes peoples’ autonomy. That’s almost the definition of violence. So remove the diminishing language as a start.
- Joeri 9y agoMy experience so far as a parent is that there is no such thing as universally appropriate parenting technique. Every child has their own personality and responds to different things in different ways. Still, I prefer to use techniques that don't make my children feel unhappy, for obvious reasons. First the carrot, then the stick.