I would suggest going to a few AA meetings and just sitting in the back. You might be surprised what you pick up just by being a 'fly on the wall'. Also: Not

I would suggest going to a few AA meetings and just sitting in the back. You might be surprised what you pick up just by being a 'fly on the wall'. Also: Not all meetings are the same. I would suggest finding one that uses the Big Book of AA, doesn't allow cross-talk (they shouldn't be trying to solve each others problems), and seems 'healthy'.