Maybe ‘naive’ is not the right word. I am sure they knew intellectually what was expected of them. Sounds like they are explained the situation when they get i

Maybe ‘naive’ is not the right word. I am sure they knew intellectually what was expected of them. Sounds like they are explained the situation when they get invited. But it also sounds like there is no way to back out or participate without repercussions leaking into their normal lives. Not exactly fair.