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A common refrain: practice X is packaged by its purveyors as the sine qua non of enlightened thinking and action. But ultimately, it is argued, ends up reinforc
by indescions_2018 9y ago
A common refrain: practice X is packaged by its purveyors as the sine qua non of enlightened thinking and action. But ultimately, it is argued, ends up reinforcing the establishment status quo. Can be applied universally to everything from the gig economy to young blood infusions.
In this context, however, I believe we are witnessing an unprecedented and radical redefinition of traditional monogamy in real-time.
Naturally, social media plays a fundamental role in the re-thinking of modern monogamy. And one can't help but infer some connection between a platform and its creator's biases.
At root is perhaps a philosophy born in the heyday of the Haight-Ashbury scene. Free Love. The idea that anyone can share intimacy with any one else. Without possessiveness. Without jealousy. Without betrayal. As long as there is explicit consent.
It's not even a modern idea. Some elements are found in Plato's Republic. Fertility rites attended by the entire polis. Followed by newborns becoming wards of the state. To be raised with egalitarian love. And no parent showing any preference for their own offspring over another.
But does it actually work in practice? Are we actually wired for pan-amory?
Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_at_Dawn https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_at_Dawn