I think, if you look hard enough in any city, you'll find just about anything, including sex dungeon parties. I knew some people who were not very secretive abo

I think, if you look hard enough in any city, you'll find just about anything, including sex dungeon parties. I knew some people who were not very secretive about it in Philadelphia, Baltimore, and DC. Those are the only cities I've lived in, so considering it's been 3-for-3 so far, I suspect it's pretty prevalent. The fact that in SV it's full of VCs is not surprising, as nowhere else would you find the density of VCs than in SV. I think the bigger question might be--in an age of safe sex and (ostensibly) loose morals--why isn't it more common?