You won't be treated poorly if you are considered desirable. If you want to know what that actually means, I suggest befriending people who work as recruiters

You won't be treated poorly if you are considered desirable. If you want to know what that actually means, I suggest befriending people who work as recruiters (or in other hiring roles) at major tech companies and getting the inside scoop from them. You shouldn't just believe everything you read on the internet, after all.