It doesn't have to be exclusively one or the other. It's like you are blaming people for having "impure intentions". Lots of things are like that. People who

It doesn't have to be exclusively one or the other. It's like you are blaming people for having "impure intentions". Lots of things are like that. People who go to a local food event go there to eat food but also they know they are going to meet some people that they may like, at least for some people that's a part of the motivation too.