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> One of the problems with Tinder is its nebulous ethos. That's a "feature". It makes it mainstream enough for people to be there without being embarrassed or
by borplk 9y ago
> One of the problems with Tinder is its nebulous ethos.
That's a "feature".
It makes it mainstream enough for people to be there without being embarrassed or ashamed.
Then people can turn it into more of a dating thing or a hookup thing as they prefer.
Few people would want to publicly create a profile on "just-here-strictly-for-hookups.com".
That's also why a huge percentage of profiles, especially female ones, insist so strongly that they are not there for hookups. It's a facade and a bit of virtue signalling ("I'm not a slut like those other girls!").