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Behavior like this is why there’s rampant sexual harassment in places that should ostensibly be about something other than hooking up. I would recommend going t
by jdavis703 9y ago
Behavior like this is why there’s rampant sexual harassment in places that should ostensibly be about something other than hooking up. I would recommend going to hacker meet ups to hack, and going elsewhere like a bar or club to look for a hookup.
- kazagistar 9y agoBars or Clubs are for people who like drinking and dancing. It's very unlikely that you will randomly find someone there who shares meaningful interests.
- jdavis703 9y agoIs this a discussion about finding people to date, or to hang out with? If it’s just about expanding your social network then you’re right, bars are bad unless your shared interests are drinking and dancing. But it seemed as if this thread was suggesting using social situations that aren’t about dating to find people to date.
- borplk 9y agoIt doesn't have to be exclusively one or the other. It's like you are blaming people for having "impure intentions". Lots of things are like that. People who go to a local food event go there to eat food but also they know they are going to meet some people that they may like, at least for some people that's a part of the motivation too.