Well, for one thing, you know exactly what you're getting into when fucking a dildo. It doesn't come with feelings or emotions or a sense of inferiority. There'

Well, for one thing, you know exactly what you're getting into when fucking a dildo. It doesn't come with feelings or emotions or a sense of inferiority. There's no social baggage attached to the arrangement. It's also always available to fuck. It's not gonna tell its friends nor yours. You just fuck it and clean it. So don't take it personally. Same reason why men and women watch porn even when they are in a fulfilling relationship. Most people aren't in a relationship with a sexual object constantly available at the snap of a finger. Masturbation helps bridge asymmetries in libido and availability. It's not personal. Anyways, I agree with the other commenter. If you're feeling that virginity is winding around your self-identity, then I think the healthiest thing to do is pay for some sex. You'll be in a better mental place. If you've actually approached hundreds of women without any success, that's pretty concerning. But I have a hard time believing you've actually directly approached that many women without any results. For example, people more likely err on the side of being too indirect and then assuming it's rejection when the other person doesn't do the escalation for them.