> > $130 meal is a once in a lifetime type celebration (e.g. 50th wedding anniversary, > Most "traditional" weddings (like you see in TV shows) cost $130 per g

> > $130 meal is a once in a lifetime type celebration (e.g. 50th wedding anniversary, > Most "traditional" weddings (like you see in TV shows) cost $130 per guest for meal and alcohol. Many people attend many of these in a lifetime. Right, but the host pays for it all. Your children getting married is a "once in a lifetime event" like a 50 year anniversary or a major career promotion.