Surviving it. I know that sounds dramatic, but it's the best I can do (I almost kicked the bucket in 2016). I went through a lot of personal changes over the p

Surviving it. I know that sounds dramatic, but it's the best I can do (I almost kicked the bucket in 2016). I went through a lot of personal changes over the past 2 years, and I'm still too close to absorb it all. If there is one lesson I did learn, it's that I really need to stop being a lone wolf. This isn't to say I don't have friends, but it's accepting that I'm only one person, and it's trying to understand who "my people" are, and that's hard to figure out when there are so many wild transitions in location, social, and financial positions. I've made a lot of tough and firm decisions over the past several months, and it's up to me to hold myself responsible to those commitments. The toughest step will be acting on the knowledge that I can't do it all alone, balanced with the fact that I have to do 90% first, and hand off the final 10% to someone else. In an ideal world, it would be an even split.