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The question of what it's like to be someone or something else is much more immediate with all the youngsters who claim they feel like the opposite sex and have

The question of what it's like to be someone or something else is much more immediate with all the youngsters who claim they feel like the opposite sex and have done so their whole lives, despite of course not having any frame of reference for those feelings. And based on those feelings alone we're told they are to be injected with life-altering chemicals and have life-altering surgeries.

Kenji 9y ago
What does that have to do with anything in this article? Seems like you're just complaining about trans people.
jamesrcole 9y ago
> despite of course not having any frame of reference for those feelings the question hinges on whether they need a frame of reference for those feelings. You seem to be implying that it's obvious that they do. Why? Perhaps it is like the feeling that you're hungry, that it's some sort of innate reporting that doesn't require an external frame of reference. Or like the feeling that you're attracted to either males or females, or both. That seems to be just there, coming from inside. Personally, I don't know the answer. I don't know if there's any relevant research, but on the face of it at least, it's not obvious that it should be one way or the other.
- yipopov 9y ago
  > the question hinges on whether they need a frame of reference for those feelings Why not? Just about every other medical treatment require far greater standards of evidence than just a subjective feeling. For example there seems to be wide consensus in medicine that those with body dysmorphic disorder are to be denied amputation of healthy limbs. > Perhaps it is like the feeling that you're hungry To which the equivalent conditions would be the various eating disorders, where medical efforts seem to be focused on restoring normal eating patterns rather than reinforcing feelings of being either too hungry or not hungry enough. And unless there is a disorder like this, it's easy enough to gain a frame of reference, we all know what it's like to be hungry vs. not hungry.
  - jamesrcole 9y ago
    >> the question hinges on whether they need a frame of reference for those feelings > Why not? Just about every other medical treatment require far greater standards of evidence than just a subjective feeling. For example there seems to be wide consensus in medicine that those with body dysmorphic disorder are to be denied amputation of healthy limbs. I'm not talking about the medical treatment. My question was why do you believe those people need an external frame of reference to know whether those feelings are correct or not? You implied they do, but haven't explained why. >> Perhaps it is like the feeling that you're hungry > To which the equivalent conditions would be the various eating disorders, that statement assumes your position on the issue in question. Is it like an eating disorder or not? > And unless there is a disorder like this, it's easy enough to gain a frame of reference, we all know what it's like to be hungry vs. not hungry. I can't parse the meaning of this sentence.
    - yipopov 9y ago
      > I'm not talking about the medical treatment. > My question was why do you believe those people need an external frame of reference to know whether those feelings are correct or not? I don't know. I'm sure many genuinely feel this way and I'm sure there are those who pretend in order to fit in, but then again you can say that about anything. What's in my opinion much more interesting is how to deal with it in the public forum. I think it's fair to require something more than just a subjective feeling in order to treat these people as being of the opposite sex, up to and including performing surgeries on them to make them look the part. > You implied they do, but haven't explained why. I can't possibly tell what people are thinking, I can only discuss what people say and do. > that statement assumes your position on the issue in question. Is it like an eating disorder or not? I think they are distinct conditions with distinct causes and treatments, but I think in both cases I think treatment should value physical facts over subjective feelings, which is an uncontroversial position for eating disorders, but a controversial one for gender dysphoria. > I can't parse the meaning of this sentence. I mean that even without an external frame of reference you do have a perfectly good internal one. Most people alternate between being hungry and not being hungry several times a day and know perfectly well what either feels like.
- cristianpascu 9y ago
  I don't have the feeling I am a man. I am a man by the definition we all(used to) work with. It's not a word encompassing a set of feelings or doings. If one wishes to use the word "man" for something else, question is: why the same word? If someone with a vagina and breasts says she is a man, I have to ask: how do you know? I don't know what the man next to me feels like or thinks. I could not possibly identify as his way of being. Let alone a biological woman. And seems that no one really cares about the theoretical issues we, transphobic people, have in accepting such views. We're just that. And problem is if our daughters or sons will come one day saying they're transgender, they will have no arguments, but just hurt feelings and the requirement to accept them as they are, or believe to be. We, as parents, may do so out of love. But others will not. And we, as parents, will have to accept the high risk of suicide for a view that has no sane arguments behind.
  - jamesrcole 9y ago
    > And problem is if our daughters or sons will come one day saying they're transgender, they will have no arguments, but just hurt feelings... I'm not sure why you say hurt feelings, rather than just "feelings". On a separate note, historically, the medical profession has been terrible at ignoring or dismissing real issues that people have faced because we didn't have an understanding of them at the time. There's a very strong positivist bent that, if we don't formally understand an issue then it doesn't exist. Which completely ignores the fact that our knowledge of the body and brain and all their complexities (and all the ways they can vary and go wrong and so forth) was and is quite incomplete. The attitude that, if we don't have an objective theoretical account of some mental/physical then the right thing to do is basically discount its reality has led to so much needless suffering. This of course is not itself any evidence that someone's claims about themselves is true, but it is something that should always be seriously taken into consideration.
  - pjc50 9y ago
    > And we, as parents, will have to accept the high risk of suicide for a view that has no sane arguments behind. This is a risk of depression as well, and refusing to accept that someone is depressed does not make them any less likely to commit suicide.
gwbas1c 9y ago
Hacker News is supposed to be non-political. What you describe has a medical term, it's called gender dysphoria and is widely studied within the medical community.
- yipopov 9y ago
  I'm very familiar with gender dysphoria research, and I'm also familiar with the endless stream of vitriol (but no actual scientific refutation as far as I have seen) against people like Blanchard, Bailey, Lawrence et al. as soon as they say something that doesn't fit the political objectives of the activists. My interest isn't with the politics, it's with the science, which does seem like it's well within the scope of Hacker News.
  - pvg 9y ago
    it's with the science, which does seem like it's well within the scope of Hacker News. Maybe you should write a blog post about that and post that to HN and see how it does instead of hijacking completely unrelated threads with deliberately incendiary comments. You did that and it's lame as is trying to hide behind 'science' or the scope oh HN.
    - GFischer 9y ago
      I'd actually encourage yipopov to do that, and I hope it doesn't get flagged and some interesting discussion arises from it... Sam Altman very recently posted about being more comfortable discussing controversial ideas such as this one! http://blog.samaltman.com/e-pur-si-muove http://blog.samaltman.com/e-pur-si-muove
pjc50 9y ago
What kind of Rorschach test is it that an article about bees and philosophy of mind that does not even mention gender at all triggers someone to make an anti-trans comment? In which it's asserted that someone's feelings about their own life are wrong and their lived experience is incorrect. Maybe we could try to imagine what it's like to be a different human first before moving on to bees. > are to be Have asked to be, usually repeatedly and in the face of a great deal of opposition.
- cristianpascu 9y ago
  It's philosophically related. Very much related and of much more interest these days. Specially since transgender people have such high risk of mental illness and suicide, they and close ones need to be made aware and informed about theoretical issues regarding their beliefs. If they are served only the one-sided ideological views so not to hurt them emotionally, they are not really protected, but only encouraged to risk their lives in the hope the world will change by force and not by argument and debate.
  - pjc50 9y ago
    Do you think that any trans person can reach adulthood or even puberty without being aware of the "theoretical issues" that the rest of the world thinks about the issue? Being a minority as they are? Do you really think they are the ones trying to change the world by force, rather than the other way round? Traditionally quite a lot of force, including murder, has been levelled against trans people. And what does any of this have to do with bees?
rollo 9y ago
In addition to what others have said in response and further picking apart this silliness: Your comment also appears to suggest that a life of depression and potential suicide is preferable to the medically accepted palliative treatment that has shown itself to be quite life-altering indeed, at least enough to prevent this outcome.
- yipopov 9y ago
  > Your comment also appears to suggest that a life of depression and potential suicide is preferable to the medically accepted palliative treatment that has shown itself to be quite life-altering indeed, That only follows if that outcome is inevitable and that highly invasive treatment is the only solution. For example I have a hard time seeing it as particularly necessary for patients with autogynephilia, which seems to be the largest group among men. > at least enough to prevent this outcome. Hardly enough, see http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0016885 http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.... Maybe there is some comorbidity, which if treated, the gender dysphoria could be resolved as well without invasive treatment.
dang 9y ago
Taking an HN thread into off-topic flamewar hell like this amounts to trolling. We ban accounts that do this. Please don't do it again. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html Edit: your account history consists largely of uncivil and/or unsubstantive and/or flamebait comments. Would you please read https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and take the spirit of this site to heart? We're looking for thoughtful conversation, not snark, putdowns, or intellectual face-smacks.

Kenji 9y ago

What does that have to do with anything in this article? Seems like you're just complaining about trans people.

jamesrcole 9y ago

> despite of course not having any frame of reference for those feelings the question hinges on whether they need a frame of reference for those feelings. You seem to be implying that it's obvious that they do. Why? Perhaps it is like the feeling that you're hungry, that it's some sort of innate reporting that doesn't require an external frame of reference. Or like the feeling that you're attracted to either males or females, or both. That seems to be just there, coming from inside. Personally, I don't know the answer. I don't know if there's any relevant research, but on the face of it at least, it's not obvious that it should be one way or the other.

yipopov 9y ago
> the question hinges on whether they need a frame of reference for those feelings Why not? Just about every other medical treatment require far greater standards of evidence than just a subjective feeling. For example there seems to be wide consensus in medicine that those with body dysmorphic disorder are to be denied amputation of healthy limbs. > Perhaps it is like the feeling that you're hungry To which the equivalent conditions would be the various eating disorders, where medical efforts seem to be focused on restoring normal eating patterns rather than reinforcing feelings of being either too hungry or not hungry enough. And unless there is a disorder like this, it's easy enough to gain a frame of reference, we all know what it's like to be hungry vs. not hungry.
- jamesrcole 9y ago
  >> the question hinges on whether they need a frame of reference for those feelings > Why not? Just about every other medical treatment require far greater standards of evidence than just a subjective feeling. For example there seems to be wide consensus in medicine that those with body dysmorphic disorder are to be denied amputation of healthy limbs. I'm not talking about the medical treatment. My question was why do you believe those people need an external frame of reference to know whether those feelings are correct or not? You implied they do, but haven't explained why. >> Perhaps it is like the feeling that you're hungry > To which the equivalent conditions would be the various eating disorders, that statement assumes your position on the issue in question. Is it like an eating disorder or not? > And unless there is a disorder like this, it's easy enough to gain a frame of reference, we all know what it's like to be hungry vs. not hungry. I can't parse the meaning of this sentence.
  - yipopov 9y ago
    > I'm not talking about the medical treatment. > My question was why do you believe those people need an external frame of reference to know whether those feelings are correct or not? I don't know. I'm sure many genuinely feel this way and I'm sure there are those who pretend in order to fit in, but then again you can say that about anything. What's in my opinion much more interesting is how to deal with it in the public forum. I think it's fair to require something more than just a subjective feeling in order to treat these people as being of the opposite sex, up to and including performing surgeries on them to make them look the part. > You implied they do, but haven't explained why. I can't possibly tell what people are thinking, I can only discuss what people say and do. > that statement assumes your position on the issue in question. Is it like an eating disorder or not? I think they are distinct conditions with distinct causes and treatments, but I think in both cases I think treatment should value physical facts over subjective feelings, which is an uncontroversial position for eating disorders, but a controversial one for gender dysphoria. > I can't parse the meaning of this sentence. I mean that even without an external frame of reference you do have a perfectly good internal one. Most people alternate between being hungry and not being hungry several times a day and know perfectly well what either feels like.
cristianpascu 9y ago
I don't have the feeling I am a man. I am a man by the definition we all(used to) work with. It's not a word encompassing a set of feelings or doings. If one wishes to use the word "man" for something else, question is: why the same word? If someone with a vagina and breasts says she is a man, I have to ask: how do you know? I don't know what the man next to me feels like or thinks. I could not possibly identify as his way of being. Let alone a biological woman. And seems that no one really cares about the theoretical issues we, transphobic people, have in accepting such views. We're just that. And problem is if our daughters or sons will come one day saying they're transgender, they will have no arguments, but just hurt feelings and the requirement to accept them as they are, or believe to be. We, as parents, may do so out of love. But others will not. And we, as parents, will have to accept the high risk of suicide for a view that has no sane arguments behind.
- jamesrcole 9y ago
  > And problem is if our daughters or sons will come one day saying they're transgender, they will have no arguments, but just hurt feelings... I'm not sure why you say hurt feelings, rather than just "feelings". On a separate note, historically, the medical profession has been terrible at ignoring or dismissing real issues that people have faced because we didn't have an understanding of them at the time. There's a very strong positivist bent that, if we don't formally understand an issue then it doesn't exist. Which completely ignores the fact that our knowledge of the body and brain and all their complexities (and all the ways they can vary and go wrong and so forth) was and is quite incomplete. The attitude that, if we don't have an objective theoretical account of some mental/physical then the right thing to do is basically discount its reality has led to so much needless suffering. This of course is not itself any evidence that someone's claims about themselves is true, but it is something that should always be seriously taken into consideration.
- pjc50 9y ago
  > And we, as parents, will have to accept the high risk of suicide for a view that has no sane arguments behind. This is a risk of depression as well, and refusing to accept that someone is depressed does not make them any less likely to commit suicide.

gwbas1c 9y ago

Hacker News is supposed to be non-political. What you describe has a medical term, it's called gender dysphoria and is widely studied within the medical community.

yipopov 9y ago
I'm very familiar with gender dysphoria research, and I'm also familiar with the endless stream of vitriol (but no actual scientific refutation as far as I have seen) against people like Blanchard, Bailey, Lawrence et al. as soon as they say something that doesn't fit the political objectives of the activists. My interest isn't with the politics, it's with the science, which does seem like it's well within the scope of Hacker News.
- pvg 9y ago
  it's with the science, which does seem like it's well within the scope of Hacker News. Maybe you should write a blog post about that and post that to HN and see how it does instead of hijacking completely unrelated threads with deliberately incendiary comments. You did that and it's lame as is trying to hide behind 'science' or the scope oh HN.
  - GFischer 9y ago
    I'd actually encourage yipopov to do that, and I hope it doesn't get flagged and some interesting discussion arises from it... Sam Altman very recently posted about being more comfortable discussing controversial ideas such as this one! http://blog.samaltman.com/e-pur-si-muove http://blog.samaltman.com/e-pur-si-muove

pjc50 9y ago

What kind of Rorschach test is it that an article about bees and philosophy of mind that does not even mention gender at all triggers someone to make an anti-trans comment? In which it's asserted that someone's feelings about their own life are wrong and their lived experience is incorrect. Maybe we could try to imagine what it's like to be a different human first before moving on to bees. > are to be Have asked to be, usually repeatedly and in the face of a great deal of opposition.

cristianpascu 9y ago
It's philosophically related. Very much related and of much more interest these days. Specially since transgender people have such high risk of mental illness and suicide, they and close ones need to be made aware and informed about theoretical issues regarding their beliefs. If they are served only the one-sided ideological views so not to hurt them emotionally, they are not really protected, but only encouraged to risk their lives in the hope the world will change by force and not by argument and debate.
- pjc50 9y ago
  Do you think that any trans person can reach adulthood or even puberty without being aware of the "theoretical issues" that the rest of the world thinks about the issue? Being a minority as they are? Do you really think they are the ones trying to change the world by force, rather than the other way round? Traditionally quite a lot of force, including murder, has been levelled against trans people. And what does any of this have to do with bees?

rollo 9y ago

In addition to what others have said in response and further picking apart this silliness: Your comment also appears to suggest that a life of depression and potential suicide is preferable to the medically accepted palliative treatment that has shown itself to be quite life-altering indeed, at least enough to prevent this outcome.

yipopov 9y ago
> Your comment also appears to suggest that a life of depression and potential suicide is preferable to the medically accepted palliative treatment that has shown itself to be quite life-altering indeed, That only follows if that outcome is inevitable and that highly invasive treatment is the only solution. For example I have a hard time seeing it as particularly necessary for patients with autogynephilia, which seems to be the largest group among men. > at least enough to prevent this outcome. Hardly enough, see http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0016885 http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.... Maybe there is some comorbidity, which if treated, the gender dysphoria could be resolved as well without invasive treatment.

dang 9y ago

Taking an HN thread into off-topic flamewar hell like this amounts to trolling. We ban accounts that do this. Please don't do it again. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html Edit: your account history consists largely of uncivil and/or unsubstantive and/or flamebait comments. Would you please read https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and take the spirit of this site to heart? We're looking for thoughtful conversation, not snark, putdowns, or intellectual face-smacks.