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No, it's not a default. The default is that successful women have a bigger pool to choose from and they really do. What happen in practice is that they refuse
by user5994461 9y ago
No, it's not a default. The default is that successful women have a bigger pool to choose from and they really do.
What happen in practice is that they refuse to consider anyone who is not more than themselves, effectively ignoring the vast majority of the pool. The more successful and pretty, the bigger the pool, which they balance by being even more selective.
- kaitai 9y ago"[T]hey refuse to consider.." We all bring our own experiences, but as one of those highly educated women, many men refuse to consider me. A lot of guys do still want someone who doesn't match them economically or intellectually. Of course this is not universal. But have you ever had a guy (gal) just walk away from you in a club after hearing what you do for a living? Math. The death knell for a previously reasonable flirtation.
- user5994461 9y agoI stopped disclosing what I do for a living a long long time ago.