There is a huge difference, you're also discounting GC. Haskell's GC for example is tuned to the aspects of the language, meaning it's pretty efficient at alloc

There is a huge difference, you're also discounting GC. Haskell's GC for example is tuned to the aspects of the language, meaning it's pretty efficient at allocating and cleaning up lots of memory; it has to be, everything is immutable. Mutable language GC's like JS or Java's aren't necessarily built for this compared to GHC. And even discounting all that, things like stack memory, cache, etc all make a huge difference in real world performance. GC's have come a long way, but there is still a gap in performance.