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You also have to accept the possibility of being creepy. People have varied and different responses to things and there is no way to 100% eliminate the possibil
by afarrell 9y ago
You also have to accept the possibility of being creepy. People have varied and different responses to things and there is no way to 100% eliminate the possibility that any given person sees you as a threat to their safety. All you can do is take reasonable precautions so that a reasonable person would not be creeped out. Keep in mind that "reasonable" is culturally-dependent, so you should pay attention to the local social norms as aspirationally advocated and actually practised. One useful thing to do is to go into a situation with at least one friend so that you can check in with them when situations are ambiguous.
- kakarot 9y agoSomeone once told me that the way they can always tell if someone is an American traveling abroad in their country is that they always have this stupid shit eating grin on their face and most everyone else keeps a neutral expression. If you are out of your cultural element, you can cross the line into apparent insincerity with surprising ease. Always know thyself.
- afarrell 9y agoMany Londoners (or Australians living in London) find that expression somewhat charming. Just don't talk to strangers on the tube.
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