I (straight male) found my wife on okc but not sure it would have been possible with these changes. My pics are for some reason generally unflattering and I ge

I (straight male) found my wife on okc but not sure it would have been possible with these changes. My pics are for some reason generally unflattering and I get a better response with profile plus actual meeting people. Also I would have been too embarrassed to message people if I had to use my real name