> if higher quality men have more of their time wasted... if the men who write detailed messages get worse results than the men who write a thousand identical o

> if higher quality men have more of their time wasted... if the men who write detailed messages get worse results than the men who write a thousand identical one-liners (or who swipe right on everything, etc.), then the former type of men will leave the site and women will be left with the latter type. Yeah, that's not what makes a man "high quality" by the data and revealed preferences online. Attractiveness does. The men any woman wants to see on a dating site online don't have their time wasted, because they get responses to whatever they write.