> If you upload pictures, you can be easily identified. If it has your face, yes. Kink profiles don't, as a rule. > If someone wants to stalk you, a reverse-i

> If you upload pictures, you can be easily identified. If it has your face, yes. Kink profiles don't, as a rule. > If someone wants to stalk you, a reverse-image search is trivial to do. Most folk use a photo specific to OkCupid for this reason. > you don't have to use your real name You have to use the one you'd prefer to be called by. I don't know about you, but that's the name my mother gave me. On top of which, it is already being "enforced" in a way that will pretty much guarantee that my actual name will be seen as an evasion of the policy. If folk want to go by their name, the original policy allowed that. Or they could go to Bumble or Tinder or a billion other wannabe apps. What OkCupid allowed was choice to choose any name, even a dumb one, for any reason. That they sneered and smarmed their way through the announcement just makes me angrier and less willing to take them seriously. Edit: there are also people saying that they edited the blogpost and their FAQ after a backlash against a strict real-name policy: https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/7ljp4u/realname_change_hits_lgbt_community_hardest/drmyeoq/?context=5 https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/7ljp4u/realname_ch... Edit 2: There are multiple screenshots of "first name" and "real name" text from the app and website which predate the alleged change to the text of the blogpost and FAQ: https://imgur.com/LaYdmba https://imgur.com/LaYdmba, https://imgur.com/aOIKjKR https://imgur.com/aOIKjKR