But this is not just a hobby, this is their life's work. Could you image if someone said their husband was "a doctor, or something like that..." and if you ask

But this is not just a hobby, this is their life's work. Could you image if someone said their husband was "a doctor, or something like that..." and if you asked what they specialized in (surgeon, orthopedics, etc) you would have no idea? It's not about knowing HOW they do their job, it's about knowing WHAT they do. Anyways, my husband is a programmer and so am I so we don't have this problem, but another problem entirely...