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What you're describing is actually the way the world is. People who find it easy to be pleasant get further in life, while those with antisocial tendencies expe
by racer-v 9y ago
What you're describing is actually the way the world is. People who find it easy to be pleasant get further in life, while those with antisocial tendencies experience rejection - even when they're make more of an effort to be pleasant than those for whom it comes naturally. On the other hand, the unpleasant person may discover a billion dollar idea thinking alone in his basement. So it goes.
- watwut 9y agoBeing pleasant is not in opposition to ability to think or creativity. You can be both and world is not fair.
- MadSudaca 9y agoI agree. Being pleasant is probably a mix of having a good dose of the agreeableness and extroversion personality traits. Both of which are uncorrelated to creativity and IQ, other two traits.
- racer-v 9y agoI know, but the possibility of getting rich is a nice booby prize for the unlikeable and unattractive.
- MadSudaca 9y agoIt’s definitely not impossible. You probably won’t have an easy time if you’re someone who requires the approval of a lot of people, for example, being a public figure or exploiting your image.
- J-dawg 9y ago> even when they're make more of an effort to be pleasant than those for whom it comes naturally Have you got a source for this? It sounds plausible but also difficult to prove.
- MadSudaca 9y agoI suggest an experiment. Find someone with a trait you admire and lack, try as hard as you can to be like them. Check your results.