Every time my wife and I go skiing we end up with the same discussion. My wife wants to try as many pistes as possible I like exploring the same in more depth

Every time my wife and I go skiing we end up with the same discussion. My wife wants to try as many pistes as possible I like exploring the same in more depth explore some of the details. She gets to explore many different pistes I get to explore the details of the same. The tradeoff is really about perspective but it's not really a tradeoff but just consequence of choices (which is a kind of tradeoff).