I think for some definition of "not in control", I would agree that men are not in control of their sexual urges. More specifically, while I think in most situa

I think for some definition of "not in control", I would agree that men are not in control of their sexual urges. More specifically, while I think in most situations I'd be fine, but if I've had one too many drinks, and the social situation "feels" appropriate to me, it might be possible that I do something which I'd later regret.