> not knowing whether calling the behaviour out in the moment would make things worse I too feel this. I currently try to find alternative solutions, although

> not knowing whether calling the behaviour out in the moment would make things worse I too feel this. I currently try to find alternative solutions, although only one example is coming to mind: I saw a woman being very probably crowded by a guy on a dance floor, and it looked unwanted. I offered a hula hoop for her to play with: instant personal space bubble. (She took it, guy backed off and later left). I figure the goal is to disrupt the current poor behavior, rather than try to correct / call it out, given my skill levels. Legit / mutual behavior will resume, unwanted behavior (generally?) won't.