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You don't have to guess if you read my response. That said, I believe the same goes for women. The biological push is towards sex; children are a result (someti
by telemachos 16y ago
You don't have to guess if you read my response. That said, I believe the same goes for women. The biological push is towards sex; children are a result (sometimes) of the sex. (You can argue about variance of intensity or frequency of desire among males and females, of course. I'm not sure what I think about all that, though my instinct is to say that a lot of the variance is cultural rather than biological. But that's neither here nor there, at the moment.)
Here's a way to play with this claim. Imagine you have a person (male or female) in the right age range. Would giving the person a child to care for by itself remove or diminish the person's desire for sex? I'm not so sure. (Note, I'm not talking about exhaustion due to taking care of a child - a clear side-effect, nor about the biological changes that occur after childbirth.)
Again, I'm thinking about this issue myself, but I don't think it's cut-and-dried male/female, as you imply.
- pchristensen 16y agoAre you saying there's no biological impulse to have children? In my experience, both men and women have sex drive, but females often (males less often) have an additional drive to have children. Why would satisfying one impulse also satisfy the other? Even if I eat, I can still get bored.