I agree, and follow the advice with my kids. But this is the key bit: When you have something to offer, maximize and concentrate that time, and then get the h

I agree, and follow the advice with my kids. But this is the key bit: When you have something to offer, maximize and concentrate that time, and then get the hell out of the way. I know some parents that kneejerk to helicopter parenting by not parenting at all. As with most things, neither pole is very effective.