Not only does it not commodify women, you're assumption that men will treat them as objects is possibly bigoted. Men having polite conversations with women is

Not only does it not commodify women, you're assumption that men will treat them as objects is possibly bigoted. Men having polite conversations with women is 'wrong' only in a dystopian future. I personally think it's a little ridiculous and would not want to attend, nor would I put together a party like that, but it's a matter of social taste, not morality.