Yup, totally agree. Probably also because there’s no written record of what was actually said or done in the majority of micro-events that help to define person

Yup, totally agree. Probably also because there’s no written record of what was actually said or done in the majority of micro-events that help to define personalities and setup plot lines (eg the opening bar scene at Thirsty Scholar in The Social Network between Mark Zuckerberg and his love interest).